As many of you may already know today is Mother's Day and in keeping with my Friday's rambling mode style of a blog update, I've decided to reflect on this "holiday"with no special point or purpose other than to post this so that I can then reflect on my reflecting.
So if you are so inclined, please read at your own risk. You may waste 2-10 minutes of your life you will never get back. I guess it all depends on how fast you read (sorry all of you slow readers).
I guess I should start by saying it's nap time. Meaning that, it is that wonderful time of the day I passionately long for when I can sit down with some assurance,that for at least 15 minutes, I will not be constantly hounded by my children to get off the sofa and do something motherly, to which I always have to reply, "Give me a break here, can't you see I'm on the computer!?!?".
Do you remember when your mom used the say the same thing to you but she always said, "phone"."Can't you see I'm on the phone here?" Who were they always talking to anyway? Which brings me to my point --or lack of one-- as it were.
I am SOOOOOO much a better mother than my mother. How do I know? Because I'm almost NEVER on the phone! That's right I said it. I'm almost never on the phone! Who has time, What with all the texting and tweeting and blogging, and the photo-chronically of my two youngest children's every move.
OK that's not my point at all. Look! I warned you about this rambling thing I've got going on here.
Anyway as I was saying about this "holiday", everyone I know, thinks it's about the fact they are a mom but I disagree entirely. It should be about the "mothering", not the mother.
See it's almost exactly 1 year to the day that I gave up a medium-to-high-powered job in upper-middle-to-low-middle-low-low management at a super-huge ginormous company where everyone is rated on their merits provided that their bosses, bosses like them and in turn allow them to rate you on their assessment of things you did, that they never had time to ask you about but always seemed to say "I think you're doing a great job here", followed by "I'm sorry you don't get a raise again this year.
" How could I have ever given that up? Ahhhh, I'll never really know.
So back to what I was saying, which was the holiday is about the mothering and not the mother and as we all go through the various versions of celebration bestowed upon us by our children, husbands or boyfriends --not every mom is married, I know that--, (or girlfriends --didn't want to leave that 10% out-- sorry Ladies I almost forgot you) or whomever picked out a card or helped make a card that by the way GOT WAY TOO MUCH glitter AND GLUE ON EVERYTHING AND I NOW HAVE TO CLEAN IT UP!THANKS MILLIONS!, I say don't give us cards and gifts because we're a mother, give us gifts (not coffee mugs that say "Best Mom Ever" either -- you get me!) for what we're really doing here. We are raising the best generation of kids ever!
See when all is said and done, after all the gymnastics, swimming, dance, Sunday Chinese Language classes,bio-medical pre-k starter classes, periodic table of element flash cards for two year old's repetition training, and Mom-Kid Yoga boding classes, these kids ultimately learn the most from us, THE MOMS!
Case in point, just after breakfast this morning, my dear-sweet-so-incredibly-wonderful husband decided to snap a little picture of our two youngest (finally) playing quietly by themselves. When he showed me the picture, I said "Oh that's cute, look.... they're sitting together without fighting.
" To which he replied, "I don't think you get it honey." and he added "I asked them what they were doing and they said, ............ we're playing "Mommy."

It brought a tear to my eye. How can a mother be any more proud?
Anyway I have to end this post now, I hear the phone ringing and the caller ID says it's my mom. Jeesh! When will she figure out there's more to do than just sit around and talk on the phone.
So to all of you great "mothering" mom's out there.... rejoice today is your day.